Every month in Sex at Our Age, award-winning senior sexpert Joan Price answers your questions about everything from loss of desire to solo sex and partner issues. Nothing is out of bounds! I dated a few men after my divorce, but no one for the past decade. But the older I get, the more insecure I feel about my body. My skin is too loose, my stomach too droopy, my breasts too floppy…. My ex-husband never tired of criticizing me about my weight. One of the men I dated after my divorce was smaller-sized and I worried that I was disappointing him by being too slack. He said I was perfect for him, but I think he was just trying not to embarrass me. My gynecologist has since confirmed that I have virtually no vaginal muscle strength.
By times, a woman may notice her vagina feels tighter than usual. At time, these changes may cause a vagina to feel tighter than normal. At the same time as a result, some women may assume their vagina is too tight, above all if they experience discomfort or ache during sexual penetration. This belief is misplaced. The pain or discomfort is a symptom of other issues.